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To Quote Kylie Minogue… I Can’t Get You Out of My Head (and I Don’t Know Why)
I went on one good date and somehow it’s still sitting in my mind like it meant more than it probably did. And I can’t help but wonder… did I actually like him, or did I just like how I felt when I was with him? Because there’s a difference. Sometimes it’s not even about the person, it’s about the ease, the attention, the feeling of not having to question anything. And for a moment, that can feel like everything.
Apr 243 min read


Diary Entry #8: Actually... There isn't More Fish In the Sea
Modern dating is a mess, and communication is at the center of it. This post breaks down mixed signals, commitment issues, and why people still don’t know what they want, no matter their age. If dating has you confused, frustrated, or over it, you’re not alone.
Apr 64 min read


My Chaotic Weekend: Snow, Margaritas, and a Dose of Reality
Diary Entry #7: I thought this was going to be a simple four-day trip. Spoiler: it was not. Between canceled flights, freezing Cleveland snow, margaritas, and a Phase 10 loss I’ll never live down, chaos was king. And then there’s ICE—both the snowy kind and the government kind—reminding me that sometimes the world is as messy as a stuck airplane. Grab a drink, buckle up, and join me for this wild ride.
Jan 284 min read


Let’s Try This Again
So… Hi. I’m Back. Okay. It’s been a minute. Not because I forgot about this blog. Not because I ran out of things to say. Life was just… life-ing . Heavy. Loud. A lot unhinged. Since August, a lot changed. I moved out of Argentina, randomly lived in Arizona for a few months (and yeah, hated it omg), and now I’m back in Charlotte trying to feel grounded again. Somewhere in all of that, I was struggling with friendships, with myself, with who I was becoming and who I didn’t wan
Jan 142 min read


Apparently, I’m Everyone’s Character Development
A guy meets me. Realizes I’m sweet, a little sassy, emotionally intelligent, and maybe just a tiny bit unhinged (but in a hot, charming way). I’m the type you can talk to for hours. The type who remembers what you said when you were half-asleep on the phone. The one who gets it. And yet... they never choose me first. It’s like I’m the soft place they crash into after the chaos wears them out. The safe zone. The one they could’ve chosen. But didn’t. And honestly? That used
Aug 8, 20255 min read


Sexless in the City: A Candid Confession
Navigating My Twenties Without Sex It’s been nine months… an entire pregnancy of no sex. Kind of ironic, honestly. It’s funny because I...
Jul 16, 20253 min read


✈️ Flight Attendant Barbie’s Unofficial Summer Travel Guide
How to Not Be That Passenger (and Keep Me From Losing It) Hi, I’m Flight Attendant Barbie, your resident sky guide, hydration...
Jun 29, 20252 min read


Diary Entry #3: Six Men, One City, and Zero Regrets: Dating in Buenos Aires
I didn’t move to Buenos Aires looking for love. I came here for a new chapter: softer mornings, a little distance from chaos, and the...
Jun 16, 20253 min read


Diary Entry #2: Soft Life, Hard Days
Lately, confidence and stress have been the loudest voices in my head, fighting for attention, taking turns, sometimes overlapping. If...
May 2, 20252 min read


Diary Entry #1: The Start of Something Digital
hey hey! I’m Destiny, and I’m so excited to welcome you to my little corner of the internet— Dest’s Digital Diary . I’ve been dreaming of...
Apr 7, 20251 min read
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